Many different conditions can lead to changes in memory, thinking, or behavior—some may be short-term, while others can have a lasting impact.
If you’ve noticed these kinds of changes in yourself or someone close to you, it can be hard to know what to do next. It might be simple, age-related forgetfulness—or it could be a sign of something more serious.
Occasional forgetfulness can be a part of aging, but sometimes, the changes may signal something more serious.
Feeling unsure about bringing up your concerns is completely understandable. Talking about it can make the issue feel more real. But because these are important health matters, taking steps to understand what’s happening is essential—for your peace of mind and for the well-being of everyone involved
What changes in memory, thinking or behavior have you noticed? Have you noticed something that's out of the ordinary?
What else is going on? Various conditions can cause short-term or long-term memory loss and affect thinking or behavior. Are there any health or lifestyle issues that could be a factor? These may include family stressors or medical problems like diabetes or depression.
Has anyone else noticed changes? Has a family member or friend expressed concerns? What did he or she notice?
Who should be part of the conversation about concerns?
If you've noticed changes in yourself, consider opening up to someone you trust. If you're concerned about someone else, the conversation might be best started by you, a close family member, a trusted friend—or even together as a supportive group. The key is approaching the conversation with care and compassion.
Consider inviting your trusted friend to come with you to your doctor to discuss the issue. Try the following:
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